Choosing to Be a Conscious Cocreator
by Sylvie Olivier
You can cocreate by default—that is, unconsciously—every day
OR
You can choose to be a Conscious Cocreator
Now that you are more aware of the influence of your vibrational frequency in your life, as well as that of others in your daily experiences, let’s explore a concrete example together.
Since we primarily live in a world where polarity prevails, it is important to realize that you have the choice to continue being a victim of the back-and-forth between the positive and the negative OR to begin living your experiences from the heart in complete neutrality.
At first glance, living from the heart may seem like a utopia, or even impossible. Many will say, “Life is life, and we can’t change it; we simply have to adapt.” I’d like to offer you another alternative so that you can CONSCIOUSLY choose to cocreate your experience at work and at home differently.
As long as you are not aware of the effects that default cocreation has on your life, you cannot grasp the power of CHOICE.
However, the depth of the experience of polarity and neutrality, as well as all their ramifications in your life, are very real and tangible. It is absolutely possible to remain in a state of neutrality and embrace a life that is so enriching, prosperous, and fun. All it takes is awareness, making different choices, and being “willing” to open yourself up to receiving “ideas” that go beyond your habits and beliefs.
I’d like to share a concrete example from the lives of a woman and a young man that I often recount during workshops or retreats. This experience is a reflection of mental archives and crystallized emotions that operate beneath the surface—unconsciously and on autopilot.
A slice of life cocreated by default
Let’s take the example of a single mother who drops her children off at daycare in the morning, stressed by all of life’s concerns as well as all the tasks she has to complete during the day, both at work and at home. Constantly judging herself for everything that falls short of her expectations or those of society… activating the mental archives, which are in fact the beliefs she has accepted, consciously or not, and the emotions crystallized within her, following so much restraint to conform, once again, to society’s expectations. In doing so, this vibration of self-judgment, discouragement, powerlessness, and even anger swirls downward and creates experiences of limitations, constrictions, obstacles, and difficulties.
On the other hand, let’s consider a young man, also stressed by his lifestyle, his uncertainties and his unanswered questions, using speed to satisfy his need for adrenaline and to counter a frustration and a sense of rebellion that are constantly simmering beneath the surface. For his part, he judges himself very harshly… even if he doesn’t share this openly. He is regularly told by his loved ones or by society that he will not succeed in life, that he is not responsible and therefore that he does not deserve the success he so desires. These thoughts create emotions within him that he tries to push away, but without success, hence his need to escape through speed, for example. Of course, other ways to relieve the pressure can also be used, such as alcohol and drugs.
So one morning, they’re both on the road in different areas, without necessarily knowing each other, feeling the weight of the stress caused by this daily self-judgment that grows heavier and heavier… and at some point, their paths cross and they collide.
What is most people’s first reaction? To view the woman as a victim of the situation and the young man as a reckless fool, isn’t it? Whereas, on a vibrational level, they met during an energetic rendezvous. Indeed, in a polarized system of attraction and repulsion, molecules vibrating at the same frequency inevitably meet. So when these two beings found themselves on the road at the same time and their vibrational signals emitted a similar vibration… they met, quite simply, in the form of a collision, which itself also vibrated at a similar frequency. That’s what I call an energetic rendezvous!
The woman’s vibrational signal (anger, discouragement, I’m not good enough)
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The young man’s vibrational signal (I’m not good enough, frustration, rebellion)
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The collision’s vibrational signal
That’s probably not what you want to cocreate, is it? Know that when you vibrate at the frequency of mental archives and crystallized emotions, you are under the influence of polarity and invariably oscillate between the positive and the negative.
An alternative is offered to you
You can choose right now to become an increasingly CONSCIOUS Cocreator.
Take a Breathing Pause for a few minutes… NOW!
You have the choice to continue living your life on autopilot, without asking too many questions and manifesting situations that are beyond your control—like the collision between the woman and the young man—or to choose to be a Conscious Cocreator.
I propose an approach of neutrality that stems from the connection to the heart, which is far more powerful than that offered by the brain. Although the prevailing view would have us believe that the heart is weak, the opposite is actually true.
Did you know that the electromagnetic field surrounding the heart is 5,000 times more powerful than that of the brain?
How to choose to live from the heart is a question I’m often asked.
Well, to start, it’s very important to acknowledge where you are and embrace it by allowing yourself to feel the various emotions that rise to the surface and, above all, to BREATHE through the different sensations. There’s no point in trying to push yourself further and feeling disappointed with your current situation. This way of thinking keeps you trapped in polarity.
Living in polarity means pushing away with all your might the invisible part that we consider negative, even trying to convince ourselves that it has no influence on our lives. This part is created by the beliefs, emotions and behaviors we’ve learned to survive. Even if we try to deny them, push them away, or avoid them, they will always be present and will have a major impact on every aspect of our lives. We will have to make constant efforts to survive in a competitive world.
Living in neutrality means embracing EVERYTHING that is, without judging an experience as positive or negative. It is to encounter all the experiences life presents. It is to live with the curiosity of a child, while possessing the maturity of a fully conscious adult. It is to open oneself to a life of complete freedom, lightness, simplicity, fluidity, and abundance in absolutely every aspect of our lives. What is required to live this lifestyle is the courage to dive into the unknown, to experiment, to see, to feel, to hear new ideas and to put them into practice so that we can experience them for ourselves.
A Slice of Life from Conscious Cocreators
In the previous example, the woman could very well have the same kind of experiences but without judging herself, by being completely open and compassionate toward herself. This would generate experiences vibrating at a higher frequency… transforming her lifestyle by offering her opportunities for freedom, lightness, simplicity and flow in every aspect of her life.
The same goes for the young man… even while regularly hearing judgments about his future and his abilities, by diving into the neutrality of his heart, he could access compassion for himself. He would be much more peaceful and in harmony and would no longer need to use speed as an escape from excessive pressure.
In this space of neutrality, we no longer speak of polarized energetic encounters but rather of welcoming all the resources the Universe makes available to you.
You can now see that the experiences lived within this neutrality lead us ever more toward light, fluid, harmonious and abundant experiences, for this is the very nature of the Universe, and we open ourselves to receiving EVERYTHING, and thus to CONSCIOUS COCREATION…
To your health, dear Conscious Cocreators!